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		<title>Fighting the Reality of Disease</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 15:34:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fighting the Reality of Disease Part I of V The First Diagnosis: About 15 years ago, I learned I had Lupus.  The doctor stated at the time it was a very hard disease to actually diagnose, and then once you find you have it, it is hard to treat.  Up until this year, I had [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1753528&amp;post=14&amp;subd=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Bad Boys-a wish?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 15:31:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A friend brought this to my attention:  there are a lot of women looking for bad boys in their ads.  This disturbed my friend, as he is a church going male in his 50’s.  He feels like the pool of women he has to choose from is pretty small already, and to add the criteria [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1753528&amp;post=13&amp;subd=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Live life to the fullest?????</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 15:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have noticed a new line, or not, which appears on many men’s profiles:  Live Life to the Fullest.  Hmm.   This statement could have many definitions.  Some may feel living life to the fullest is having as much fun, physically, as possible.  Another may define living life to the fullest as finding the spiritual center.  [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1753528&amp;post=12&amp;subd=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Reality of Red Flags:  Scary Freak!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 15:27:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay, this comes from real life, like I promised.    About two months ago, a guy contacted me from MySpace.com.  Didn’t say much, didn’t even ask to be added as a friend.  He never sent any comments, or made any blog posts.  Just sent me a message saying he thought I was pretty.  I actually [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1753528&amp;post=11&amp;subd=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Are online daters real couples?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 15:25:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; Two words: Red Flags.  I hound about these two words in my other posts, but pay attention!    When two people are online, they can look like, seem like, and be like anyone.  How will you truly know who they are?  I have had guys tell me they are from Oregon, yet suddenly I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1753528&amp;post=10&amp;subd=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>If I pay more, will I evade the freaks? « The life and times of an online dater</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Sep 2007 23:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>If I pay more, will I evade the freaks?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Sep 2007 23:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[MySpace is free; Yahoo Personals run $124.95 for six months; eharmony, $173.70; Perfect Match, $159.95; and Match.com, $131.88.  Which service is better?  If I pay more, will I get better results?  No freaks?  People who are serious in a real relationship, not just a night out?  And, last but not least, in paying for a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1753528&amp;post=8&amp;subd=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Any?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 18:53:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In looking at many profiles today, I noticed one consistent trait in many of the profiles:  “Any”. It appears the only areas which profilers are fairly specific on are body type and ethnicity.  Some designate smoking and drinking preferences.  Notice this is not gender specific, men and women alike have this problem.  I think the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1753528&amp;post=7&amp;subd=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Dating yourself</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2007 23:03:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Before we find someone who is going to be out soul mate, our lifelong love, or just a close friend, we must first have some understanding of who we are and be okay to be with just ourselves.  Now this might sound like one of those self-help books, but bottom line, wherever you get the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1753528&amp;post=6&amp;subd=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>RED FLAGS!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2007 00:44:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[             Hey, friends.  Let’s talk about RED FLAGS of online dating.  There are quite a few, and I am sure my list can be added upon, so feel free to comment.                    One of the biggest Red Flags I can offer is the scams which can really hurt your heart and your pocket book.  It [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater.wordpress.com&amp;blog=1753528&amp;post=5&amp;subd=thelifeandtimesofanonlinedater&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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